30 Days of Kink! Days 11 & 12 - ethics and humor.

Doubling up to catch up!

What are your views on the ethics of kink?

I want to have something deep and insightful to say here. I really do. But for me it's really simple and pretty much my ethic, moral, and personal code: Don't hurt someone unless they ask you to.

I could type for hours on what that means to me but I prefer to leave it open to interpretation.

Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you've had.

Honestly, many of my kink experiences are funny. I can't remember the last time I didn't laugh during a scene. It's the greatest catharsis to laugh through pain. I'm blessed to be with an insanely snarky man who will keep me laughing hysterically while he beats my ass numb.

Once in a while though, something goes altogether wrong and while it may not be entirely funny at the moment it usually is in hindsight. The most recent event would have to be my most brilliant idea to bind K's cock in bondage tape. I love love love CBT and pretty much any pain or discomfort I can inflict and get away with I will jump on. I feel like a crazed artist on one too many absinthe cocktails creating my masterpiece of cords, clamps, clips, weights, and bindings. On this particular evening I thought it would be delicious torture to mummify his cock in black bondage tape and watch it swell and push against the binding as I smacked his clothespin covered balls with my hands. Awesome right?! Not so much. At least not when it's time to remove said bondage tape and you discover it just doesn't want to come off and you've not left enough space to get the safety scissors well...safely...in there. Oh the torture when I finally had to admit defeat and let him complete the painful removal process.

Funny as hell now though. Sorry honey.